Okay here's the deal. I am not engaged. But i am planning my wedding. My lovely boyfriend has asked me to marry him several times. And I've happily said yes, when you slip a ring on my finger. So right now the boyfriend is saving his pennies. Some might question my values on that one, but i believe there is value in the process of waiting and working for something you really want. I imagine the satisfaction of that moment will be mind-blowingly wonderful.